I borrowed this lovely little checklist from Ms. Megan over at Fried Green Pickles.
This Saturday will officially put us at the 6 month out countdown! I'm being honest when I say that makes me both overjoyed and terrified at the same time. Here's a little glimpse at where I stand with the planning - I should be finalizing our DJ & caterer this week. Then the only MAJOR thing left is to book our honeymoon and of course all the little details. When I hear the saying "the devil is in the details" I know that's true! All these little details will be the death of me! My face is 50 kinds of broken out and I have PMS...I do not need to be near a hot glue gun during these stressful times.
Set a
date – 4/27/13
Book
venue – Sequoyah Marina, Norris Lake
Book
photographer – Blush Creative Photography
Book
band/DJ – finalizing this soon!
Ask
bridal party to be in wedding
Book
caterer & bar - finalizing
Register - doing hopefully this weekend
Book
florist
Brooch Bouquet
Shop
for wedding dress
Book
rentals
Take
engagement pictures
Select
bridesmaid dresses - David's Bridal
Make sure
bridesmaids dresses have been ordered by the end of October/November
Select
groom & groomsmen attire – selected not ordered
Find
veil?
Book cake
baker
Buy cake knife & server
Order
save the dates – done 9/25/12
Send save the dates –
in the mail on 10/13/12
Book
officiant – Josh Green
Pre-marital
counseling
Order
guest book – N & S letters for non-traditional Guest Book
Finalize
guest list
Find a
reasonably priced videographer
Hotel
room blocks – check on the condos at Stardust
Calligraphy - DIY!
Engagement
announcement in papers
MOB
& MOG
dress shopping
Find
wedding shoes
Bridesmaid
shoes - Found, need to order
Find
wedding jewelry
Order
garter
Book
makeup artist & hair stylist
Menu
tasting
Take
bridal portraits / hair & make up trial
1st
dress fitting – late Feb.
2nd
(final?) dress fitting
Make
ceremony programs/fans
Figure
out where we want to do first look
Figure
out where I'm getting ready & where Skye is getting ready
Who
will set up ceremony chairs? - venue staff
Order invitations
Address
invitations
Mail
invitations – late Feb/early March
Book
rehearsal dinner venue
Book RD
caterer
Book RD
rentals
Book RD
music
Buy RD
dress
Order
pom poms for send off
Order
koozies for favors
Buy
bridal party gifts
Bachelorette
party - St. Patty's Weekend 3/16/13
Bridal
shower
Purchase
wedding bands
Create
wedding day timeline
Put
together picture list for photographer
DIY
signs for Sequoyah Rd. and venue
DIY
signs for reserved seating & seat yourself
Get
marriage license - March
Book
transportation from reception to hotel
Book
honeymoon - narrowing down options
Get
passports made
RD
invitations
RD
groom's cake
Final
vendor payments
Music
selections to band and ceremony artist
Book
wedding night hotel room
Order
thank you notes
Wedding
announcement in papers
EAT, DRINK & GET MARRIED!
I had a wonderful meeting with my "wedding coordinator" of sorts last night at our venue. This is what it looked like at sunset...no filter. I HOPE & PRAY for a gorgeous day for our wedding! It definitely renewed my excitement!
And here is where I'm about to get all emotional on you...
Skye and I are a "good time" couple. We joke a lot, drink party and like to have fun. I think a lot of people don't get to see our sweet side as a couple. Everyone loves Skye - he's very lovable and funny, but not everyone gets to see how sweet he can be to me with a little kiss on my forehead or sitting through Harry Potter movies with me. I want our wedding to be a blast. I want people to say they had the time of their lives at our special day. However, I'm also starting to think that I want to get some emotions involved. I'm not an overly outward emotional person. I found these vows on Pinterest and I cried. This is what I want!
Now I have the bright idea for us to write our own vows. Originally I did not want to do this because I knew I would cry...but I'm thinking it would add a special emotional touch. I can't tell if it's my hormones pushing me to make this decision or the sane me? Did you write your own vows - why or why not? I need help with this decision!